Money vs Happiness – Money can’t buy happiness is the biggest myth that you would ever hear. Please do not go on this statement. Money can definitely buy happiness. And it can buy crazy experiences. Yes, there is a direct relationship between money and happiness. Nobody can deny that fact. And if someone is denying that fact then please beware of that person or maintain some distance because that person does not want you to achieve something big in life.
Money vs Happiness – Myth!
There are certain statements about money in the market. Today in this article we will not talk about all the positive statements about money that motivate one to earn a hell lot of money. We will talk about those who are not allowed to earn money. There can be various theories that do not let people have a clear mindset about money. We will see some of the theories here.
Manipulation
No matter in which field you are, everyone wants to beat their competition. And giving a tough competition to your competitor is sportsmanship. But when you do not want any competition in your field and you try all your best to remove that competition by hook or by crook then it shows your bad spirit in the market. Then there are manipulators. They also have the same motive as the one who wants to remove the competition. And how does manipulation work here?
When any one person succeeds in his field then he does not want anyone else in the same market. He wants to create his monopoly. So, in that case, what he tries to do is, he start creating rumors in the market. You can either tell them rumors or lies. Both things are correct. The same in the case of money. When he earns a lot of money then he does not want anyone to earn that much money so he will start telling stories about money. The statement we mentioned at the top of this article is made by that kind of person. But the difference, people fail to understand is that, when he is giving this kind of statement, then he is rich at that time and you are poor. If you also want to believe in that statement then first earn that kind of wealth and then make statements like these. How can you decide by yourself that he is right? Try to be in that position to feel the same thing. This is called manipulation the other person is doing and by agreeing with his thoughts you are trapped.
Losers
Then there come losers in the movie. They are those people who themselves are unable to earn money and they do not feel fear of missing out, now they have also started to convince people that money is just a materialistic thing. According to them earning a lot of money is itself a trap. So, how they convince the people is by making them believe that money is not the reason to be happy. And the main thing is people also fall into those false claims. I don’t understand, why people believe anything when they themselves know so much. Some of the claims made by losers are like this.
- Do not chase money, chase happiness. How can one do that? Only money can make you happy. There is a simple logic. A person can only become happy in one of the two ways. If he gets what he wants then he will become happy. Suppose he wants to buy some fancy sports car and one day when he buys it then he will become happy. The other thing is a person should become happy due to some other person. The other person could be from his family, friends, wife, or girlfriend. And both things cannot be possible without money. Because in the first case, you need money to buy things and in the second case for people to make you happy, you should have money. Because here, all relations depend upon money. If you have money then only the other person will make efforts to make you happy. This might offend people but now, the base of relations is money only.
- Do not lean towards materialistic things. Why not? If there are materialistic things in the world then why not chase them? If you are not able to have them does not mean I also cannot have those things. I will for sure have one day.
Cowards
Then there are cowards. What they do is they stop people from dreaming big. I cannot say they have bad intentions to make you not let you go beyond your limits but they are afraid of that big position. The reason behind this could be that they think that they do not deserve that position or this much amount of money. You can also say that they do not have exposure to big and fancy life which is why they are not able to think beyond their limits. They do not let you dream big. They will convince you to earn as much in that you can spend a happy life with your family covering all the basic needs. They do not want you to go towards any fancy life. But you should not fall under that trap. Dream as big as you can and always believe in yourself.
Conclusion
Let’s come to the conclusion of this article. Please be focused only on one thing and that is money. Even in your bad times when no one will help you then money will help you. Do not fall for any trap that stops you from dreaming big and earning big as well. Money is the only thing that makes relations strong and people around you happy. Even if you want to compare money and happiness then there is one suggestion for you. First, earn money and then try to compare both. And this time you will get better clarity. Do not only think about yourself, there are many people who have too many expectations from you even your haters. So, you have to do it for them as well.
Go for it!