Family and Friends

Family and friends is not a big thing to discuss but people make it complicated to maintain a balance between both. Balance is very important when you are talking about both friends and family. Many people just either stay only with their friends or with their family. Both friends and family play different roles in an individual’s life. You can’t deny the fact that both of these are important. But one without the other is just a waste. Family makes you learn adequate, moral values, family values, spiritual values, and so on.

Whereas friends will tell you the way to live life. This is natural or as expected. There is nothing new that I am telling you about this. But one completely fails to make the best use of both the relationships. And to try to do only one he just messes both the things.

So, what are we going to discuss about this here? We will just see how you can manage both relationships at the same time. What are the best learnings or life lessons you can make out of it?

Family and friends – Family

The value of family cannot be described in words. But people still overlook this. The things that family can make you learn, there is no other thing that can do the same. But people now started to believe more in nuclear families. Maybe this can be a need of time as people are working outside of their homes and they take their wives and children with them as well. But that does not mean you have finished all your terms or relations with your parents or grandparents. I think it is the privilege of your children or their like a good time with their grandparents that you are taking from them. And this is only one aspect of looking at family. This is about your children. But currently, it’s about you. Your family is the only one who will be with you no matter in which condition you are.

At some point be your friends will take a step back but whatever the worst situation will, your parents will protect you. Parents give you strength when you need it the most. There is no power other than your family that consoles you in your low time. People can switch their sides in good and bad times according to their convenience. But parents will always be by your side even at your worst. I don’t know why we are discussing it as these things should be understood only.

Family and friends – Friends

There is nothing in this world that can beat the moment of chilling with friends. Many people have now understood that the best therapy for depression or tension in this world is just to chill with your friends. Today, many doctors will recommend that the best medicine for most of the diseases is to be happy. Just laugh as much as you can. Be happy from inside and find happiness in every small thing or event in your life. And the solution to this recommendation is to sit and chill with friends. If you ask what will happen if you sit with your friends. Then, this answer cannot be explained in words. Better you ask for this answer to the person who will sit in in the company of friends like this. Some people have a routine of meeting their friends at least once in a day. And what do they do in that time? They just have a nice chat about what they did in a day. Is there any special event occurring in their day or something special? What problems do they face in their tasks today? So, for their problems, their friends will give such ideas that they die laughing. This is just one frame of their conversation. Rest all things cannot be told in words. Only one can feel those moments. If you are stuck in any problem that belongs to whatever field like a personal problem, professional, or anything then friends are the only ones who genuinely try their best to make you come out of that problem.

In life, you face different situations. These situations can be worse in worse places. So, coming into such worst situations is not a problem but not coming out of this is a problem. So, they are only friends who can make you be in that situation and they are also the same one who helps you come out of this situation. You will learn a lot from your friends. But you should be present with your friends by your heart. There should not be any ego or harsh feelings when you are with your friends. Because when you are there with your heart then you are open to learn so many things from them. But if you are going to meet them with a mindset of like only you know everything then better to not go.

Balance between family and friends

People just spend their lives to make a balance to maintain their family and friends. The best way to carry both things on the same page is to just introduce your friends to your family. Children are not ready to introduce their friends to their parents which means their friends are having some bad habits which is why they hide or do not introduce their friends to their family. So better introduce your friends in your family. Let your family also know that in which company you are roaming with. This will help you to take your personal relations to the next level. Because both the relations are important in your life. You cannot compromise with any one of the relationships.

If you want to achieve something big in your life then the first thing you need is mental peace. Because you should be strong enough with your mental strength to dream and achieve big. And this thing is only possible when you feel like going home after working hard in your office or school or anything. Then there should be someone with whom you can share whatever you want. And this can only be your friends. So, after making sure both these relations are in place you can proceed further. That is why both friends and family are necessary.

So, go and build both, stronger this time!